Can you make me feel better for not having a relationship by numbering as many cons as possible?

If you have a relationship just for the sake of having fun, then that may bring out problems. Relationship is all about ';sharing'; and being one. It's not only about being romantic. It's more than that. Apart from being romantic, the relationship must also be platonic at times. If you find it hard to fulfill these, then you can feel better for not having a relationship.Can you make me feel better for not having a relationship by numbering as many cons as possible?
noCan you make me feel better for not having a relationship by numbering as many cons as possible?
he might cheat on you


a little bit of pleasure will turn into a lot of heartbreak


its just over all not worth it
I could write you a book, dear. But saying that, even though some days are a bored miserable existence with the same person, I'm still really glad I love someone and sometimes he loves me. Enjoy your single life as much as you can while you can, one day you will look back fondly on these good times. Be happy you are single for now, with the knowledge that one day you will meet the right person and then there's no turning back.
I've got one... I live with my BF and can't even go pee without him coming to find or talk to me.... If I could get even 5 minutes of alone time, I would be so happy I might cry.
i don't know what that means (';cons';)


but don't worry you'll find the right person
IMMATURE


Emotionless


';AS LONG AS THEY GET THERES!';


they lie


they cheat


Don't fix anything around the house


Don't care about your feelings


Stinky farts


Oblivious to anything other than the TV!!!!


Stingy with there money


LAZY


Rather be with his Buddy's
u dont get chucked out of bed to sleep on the sofa cos u r snoring!
You bet I can. But I prefer to put a positive spin on it and point out the benefits of being on your own:


Come and go as you please; watch what you want on TV, eat what you want for dinner; go out with whomever you want, whenever you want; no jealousy; no mind games; listen to whatever music you want; no snoring next to you at night; flirt all you want when you're out in a club... feel better yet...? ;-)
It's okay if you don't have a steady boyfriend or girlfriend (sorry, I don't know if youre a girl or a guy). Probably the biggest con of a relationship is possible jealousy issues. Like your boyfriend/girlfriend is seen hanging out with other guyfriends and girlfriends and you get upset over this. Or vice versa. And even if you're ready for a steady relationship, the other person might not be. It's okay to take it slow and start out as friends.
Having to worry about how you look when you're around them. Having to worry about whether or not they care if you spontaneously go out with some friends. Having to consider them when making any plans.
Don't get me started.
- you have more time for yourself-to pamper yourself and relax more


- I think when you're not with someone for a period of time, you know yourself better and know what you want out of life and you are more focused on important things


- You dont have to worry about ';should I call him or should I wait for him to call me? scenario


- You dont have to constantly worry about the person or wonder where they are, if they are thinking about you, are they attracted to someone else, are they still happy with me and this relationship?


- You dont have to share the remote to the tv and watch sports or stupid guy shows


- You dont have to clean up after them


(that applies only if you live with someone)


- You can casually flirt with people and have fun, without the drama of being stuck in a relationship with that person
1st-65% of marriages fail so you don't need to be in a rush





2nd-You won't get in fights with your gf's about hanging out with your bf too much-which is very common...





3rd-Dating can cause unnecessary stress and distract you from your studies, dreams and goals.





4th-Dating can put you in an intimate relationship long before you are ready.





5th-Dating can lead to hasty choices that lead to STDs and unwanted pregnancies.





6th-Dating can lead to spending more money then you planned....(presents-trips-things of that nature)





and these are just a few!
YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT:


cheating


not calling


not coming home


losing sleep waiting for him to come home


making him dinner


dealing with his family


doing his laundry


cleaning up after him


giving him money


dealing with his loser friends


calling only when he needs something


criticizing you for gaining a little weight


leaving the toilet seat up


not doing his dishes


no explaining what you spend your money on


going out and coming home when you want too


im sure that i could go on but you get point, enjoy yourself while you can!!!
you can't do what you want


you have to report to someone


you can't stay out all night


you have to worry about him staying out all night


you have to worry if hes cheating


you can't be close with other guys


cant be a drunkard hahaha lol
Have whole place to yourself.


No waiting for the bathroom.


No smelling another's evacuations.


Eating when you want


Watching what you want on the TV.


Using the phone when you want.


Not having to listen to another's snoring.





But instead of focusing on the cons of not having why not focus on the pros of not having.





Time to do your own thing


Time to get to know yourself better


Time to catch up with all your friends


Time to take up a hobby you have been putting off.


Time to spend luxuriating


Reading, Writing etc. etc.
You can do whatever you want.


You can have all the alone time you need.


You don't have to clean up after anyone but yourself.


You don't have to worry about them getting jealous over friends or anything else.


You don't have to explain your whereabouts.


You can spend money without explaining.


You can keep the hours you want (basically).


If they don't like your pets you don't have to hear about it anymore.


You don't have to listen to their criticism.


If their parents are mean you don't have to see them anymore.





Is that enough? Oops, those are pros too. But it's the same idea. I hope you feel better.
Nobody to fight with


You can go where you want and when you want


Nobody will get jealous if you are sitting at the bar all night flirting with a stranger


You know for sure who left a mess in the living room


You don't even have to cook if you don't feel like it





Hmm, those are actually pros...
Being in a relationship isn't the base on your happiness. You should be content and happy with or without someone special, having one is just a bonus.
You can come and go as you please


You can go out with your friends


You can flirt


You can buy anything you want


You can go on as many dates as you want


You can go out to eat wherever you want